How Hattie Hated Kindness

Reach for this book when your child meets your attempts at affection or help with hostility, anger, or a cold shoulder. It is specifically designed for children who use 'hating' as a psychological shield to prevent themselves from feeling vulnerable or getting hurt again. The story follows Hattie, a girl who has built a metaphorical wall of hate to keep people out, and explores the painful feelings of shame and fear that hide behind her prickly exterior. While the imagery can be intense, it provides a vital clinical perspective on reactive attachment and emotional guarding. Parents will find this an essential tool for depersonalizing a child's lashing out, helping them see the 'scared' child underneath the 'angry' one. It is best suited for children aged 4 to 12 who have experienced trauma, displacement, or significant emotional setbacks.