
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling to bridge the gap between who they are in private and who they feel they must be in public. This powerful memoir in verse follows Tony through his high school and college years as he navigates the complex intersections of Black masculinity, academic pressure, and his emerging queer identity. It is a raw and honest look at the 'boogeymen' of self-doubt and societal expectation that haunt many young people before they find their voice. Parents will appreciate how the book models the transformative power of the arts, specifically spoken word poetry, as a tool for healing and self-actualization. Due to its mature themes, including explorations of sexuality and systemic racism, it is best suited for older teens aged 14 and up. It provides a vital mirror for those feeling 'othered' and a window for parents looking to understand the internal landscape of a child fighting for the courage to be their authentic self.
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Sign in to write a reviewExploration of queer identity and first relationships.
Depicts systemic racism and the pressure of code-switching.
Occasional strong language used for realistic emphasis.
Themes of isolation and the struggle to accept one's true self.
The book deals directly with racial identity, homophobia, and the pressure of code-switching. The approach is deeply personal and realistic, showing the internal toll of secrecy. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, grounded in the reality of the work required to achieve self-love.
A high schooler who feels like they are living a double life or a young writer who is afraid to share their work. It is perfect for the student who excels in school but feels like no one truly knows their heart.
Parents should be aware of honest discussions regarding sexual orientation and coming out, as well as descriptions of systemic racism and microaggressions in academic settings. It is a great book to read alongside a teen to facilitate dialogue about identity. A parent might choose this after realizing their child is withdrawing or after a conversation about the pressures of fitting in at school or within their cultural community.
Younger teens (14) will connect with the high school social dynamics and the search for a hobby or passion. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more with the college transition and the deeper philosophical questions of authenticity.
Unlike many memoirs, this is written in verse, which mimics the rhythm of the spoken-word poetry that saved the author's life. It treats poetry not just as a craft, but as a survival mechanism.
This memoir in verse chronicles the author's coming-of-age journey from a Washington D.C. neighborhood to the heights of academic and artistic success. Tony Keith Jr. explores his youth as a closeted Black teen who feels the need to perform a specific version of masculinity. Through poetry and performance, he slowly dismantles the 'boogeyman' of his own insecurities and accepts his sexuality and his talent.
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