
Reach for this book when your child is feeling a little lonely or struggling to find their tribe, particularly if they tend to be shy or selective about making friends. It is also an ideal choice for families preparing to bring a new dog home, as it flips the script on pet ownership by looking at the bond from the animal's perspective. The story follows Kingsley, a very particular dog who is searching for the perfect human. He has high standards and a long checklist, leading to several humorous and relatable misses along the way. Through gentle humor and Gabriel Evans's soft, expressive illustrations, the book explores themes of patience, belonging, and the idea that true friendship is about a mutual connection rather than finding someone who looks perfect on paper. It is perfectly pitched for preschoolers and early elementary children, providing a comforting reminder that while finding a 'best friend' can take time, the wait is worth it when you finally find someone who understands you exactly as you are.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the internal feeling of being 'different' or having specific needs in a friend. The approach is metaphorical, using the dog-human bond to mirror childhood social anxieties. The resolution is hopeful and realistic, emphasizing that flexibility can lead to happiness.
A 4-year-old who is perhaps a bit 'slow to warm up' in social situations or a child who feels frustrated when playmates don't play exactly by their rules. It is also perfect for the dog-obsessed child.
The book can be read cold. It is worth noting the humorous mismatch between what Kingsley thinks he wants and what he actually enjoys. A parent might choose this after seeing their child standing on the periphery of a playground, or after a playdate where the child was overly controlling of the 'rules' of play.
Younger children (3) will enjoy the 'animal-as-boss' humor and the cute illustrations. Older children (5-6) will better grasp the irony of Kingsley's high standards and the emotional growth he undergoes.
Most pet books focus on the human choosing the animal. By flipping the perspective, Evans creates a clever allegory for the agency children have in choosing their friends and the importance of looking past a checklist.
Kingsley is a small dog with high standards. He decides it is time to find a human, but he has a strict list of requirements: they must have a large house, be very quiet, and follow his rules. He interviews several candidates (a loud family, a busy man) and finds them all lacking. Eventually, he meets a girl who doesn't fit his initial checklist but offers something better: genuine companionship and a shared sense of fun.
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