
A parent might reach for this book when their child feels constantly misunderstood and is getting frustrated about it. It’s a wonderfully funny story about a land-dwelling creature with many tentacles who is repeatedly and wrongly identified as an octopus. The creature's annoyance builds into a full-blown, but comically rendered, tantrum as it insists on its true identity. Through humor and bold illustrations, the book validates the big feelings that come with not being seen for who you are, making it a perfect tool for talking about self-acceptance and resilience. This book is ideal for ages 3 to 7, as younger children will love the repetition and silly animal antics, while older children will connect with the deeper message about identity. It provides a safe and entertaining way to open a conversation about standing up for oneself and showing empathy to others who might feel different, too.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe central theme is identity and the frustration of being misunderstood. The approach is metaphorical, using an animal protagonist to explore these complex feelings. The resolution is hopeful and secular, promoting self-advocacy and empathy without any ambiguity. The book normalizes anger as a valid response to persistent frustration.
This is for the 4-6 year old who is grappling with their own identity and gets deeply frustrated when mislabeled or misunderstood. It’s perfect for a child who has big emotional reactions (tantrums) when they feel unheard, whether it's about their name, gender, abilities, or simple preferences.
The book can be read cold. It would be beneficial for a parent to preview the two-page spread depicting the septopus's tantrum. It's a powerful visual that can be a great jumping-off point for discussing what it feels like to be "red-hot mad" and how our bodies show anger. A parent has just watched their child have a meltdown after being called a "baby" when they see themselves as a "big kid," or after someone repeatedly gets their name or an important fact about them wrong. The child exclaims, "You're not listening to me!"
A 3-year-old will latch onto the humor, the repetition of "I am NOT an octopus!", and the bold, expressive illustrations. A 6-year-old will better understand the underlying message about identity, the cleverness of the "septopus" reveal, and the importance of the final scene where the protagonist shows empathy to another creature.
Many books address being different, but this book's standout feature is its direct and humorous validation of the anger that stems from being misunderstood. It doesn't just say "be yourself"; it says "it is okay to feel furious when people don't see the real you." This normalization of frustration, wrapped in a very funny package, is unique and powerful.
A creature with seven legs and an extra arm is repeatedly misidentified as an octopus by other animals. Its protestations grow from polite corrections to outright frustration, culminating in a giant, page-filling tantrum. After calming down, it explains to a small, inquisitive snail that it is, in fact, a "septopus." In the end, when another creature is mislabeled, the septopus shows empathy, having learned from its own experience.
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