
Reach for this book when your teen is navigating the awkward transitions of high school dating or feels like their academic success hasn't prepared them for the unpredictability of social relationships. It is a perfect choice for the overachiever who wishes life came with a clear rubric or manual for success. Desi Lee is a high-achieving student who decides to tackle her lack of romance by following the formulaic tropes found in K-Dramas, only to discover that real human connection is much messier than a scripted show. This story explores themes of self-confidence, the pressures of high expectations, and the importance of authenticity. While it deals with romance and teenage rebellion, it maintains a lighthearted tone that celebrates Korean-American culture and the bond between a daughter and her father. It is an excellent bridge for discussing how media influences our expectations of reality.
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Sign in to write a reviewOccasional mild profanity common in YA contemporary novels.
Discussion of the death of the protagonist's mother several years prior.
Minor mentions of typical high school social scenes/parties.
The book deals with the loss of a parent (Desi's mother) in the past. The approach is secular and realistic, focusing on how the loss has shaped Desi's need for control and her close-knit bond with her father. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on emotional growth.
A 14 to 16-year-old girl who feels like a 'perfectionist' and struggles when things don't go according to plan. It is ideal for fans of K-Pop or K-Dramas, but also for any teen who feels like they are performing a role rather than being themselves.
Read cold. The book is very accessible. Parents might want to familiarize themselves with the concept of K-Drama tropes to better enjoy the humor alongside their teen. A parent might see their child experiencing 'second-hand embarrassment' from a social failure or expressing frustration that they can't 'study' their way into being popular or liked.
Younger teens (12-13) will enjoy the slapstick humor and the 'crush' dynamics. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more with the pressure of senior year and the realization that formulas for life don't actually work.
Unlike many YA romances, this book uses the specific structural lens of K-Dramas as a meta-narrative device, making it both a parody of and a love letter to the genre while centering a strong Korean-American identity.
Desi Lee is a high school senior, star athlete, and academic powerhouse who has everything figured out except how to get a boyfriend. After a series of romantic disasters, she decides to apply the tropes of Korean dramas (K-Dramas) to her real life to land the artistic and moody Luca Drake. She creates the 'K-Drama Steps to True Love' and follows them with varying degrees of success and public humiliation. Along the way, she navigates her relationship with her widowed father and learns that you cannot life-hack your way into a genuine connection.
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