
Reach for this book when your child starts noticing physical differences between themselves and their peers, or if you want to fortify their sense of belonging within a diverse family. It is especially resonant for families formed through adoption or those navigating transracial identities. The story follows young Colin during a simple school art project where he must decide how to represent himself and his family on paper. By choosing a brown crayon to color himself differently than his white family members, he makes a powerful statement about self-acceptance. At its heart, this is a celebration of Black identity and the beauty of being unique. It teaches children that they do not have to look like everyone else to belong, and that their inherent worth is something to be celebrated loudly. Best suited for children ages 4 to 8, it provides a gentle but firm foundation for conversations about race, heritage, and the power of radical self-love.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book addresses racial identity and transracial adoption directly but with a focus on empowerment rather than trauma. It is secular and the resolution is deeply hopeful and affirming.
A 6-year-old in a transracial adoption or foster care placement who is beginning to ask why they look different from their parents, or any Black child needing a mirror for their own self-worth.
The book can be read cold, but parents should be ready for questions about why people have different skin colors or what it means to be adopted if those topics haven't been introduced yet. A parent might see their child hesitate when drawing themselves, or hear a child say, I wish I looked like you, or I don't like my skin.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the art project and the literal colors of the crayons. Older children (7-8) will grasp the deeper metaphors of identity, activism, and the importance of standing up for one's truth.
Unlike many books about being different that focus on being accepted by others, this book focuses entirely on the protagonist's internal shift toward self-celebration and the specific pride of Black identity.
The story centers on a five-year-old Colin Kaepernick who is asked by his teacher to draw a picture of his family. As a Black child adopted into a white family, Colin realizes that using the same yellow or pink crayons for everyone doesn't reflect his reality. He purposefully chooses a brown crayon to color himself, sparked by a realization of his own unique beauty and heritage. This small act of artistic rebellion becomes a foundational moment of self-discovery.
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