
A parent might reach for this book when their child gives an unusual or abstract answer to the question, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" It’s perfect for the young dreamer who thinks in feelings and metaphors. In poetic verse, a young girl explores the kind of person she wants to be, not by naming a job, but by describing her desired qualities through images: a window that lets in sun, a flower that can't be picked, a laugh that ends a sad story. This gentle and affirming book validates non-linear, creative thinking and shifts the focus from 'doing' to 'being'. It's a beautiful way to open conversations with a 5 to 8 year old about character, empathy, and the many ways to have a positive impact on the world.
The core topic is identity exploration. The approach is entirely metaphorical, gentle, and secular. The book does not present any conflicts or heavy themes. The resolution is hopeful and expansive, celebrating the child's inner world and unique perspective on her own potential.
This book is for a sensitive, imaginative 5 to 7-year-old who thinks abstractly. It's perfect for the child who feels constrained by concrete labels and enjoys exploring ideas and feelings. It would strongly resonate with a child who is developing their sense of empathy and internal character.
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Sign in to write a reviewNo preparation is needed. This book can be read cold. A parent might choose to read it slowly, allowing time to absorb the poetic language and discuss the meaning behind each of the girl's wishes. The concepts are accessible but rich with meaning. A parent hears their child say something like, "When I grow up, I want to be sunshine," or seems stumped by the question of what job they want. This book provides a language and validation for that kind of abstract, character-focused thinking.
A younger child (5-6) will connect with the beautiful illustrations and the simple, pleasing ideas of being a window or a flower. An older child (7-8) will better grasp the underlying metaphors: the window represents openness and optimism, the unpicked flower represents inner strength and resilience, and the laugh represents empathy and healing.
While many books ask what a child wants to *do* when they grow up, this one is unique in its focus on who a child wants to *be*. It champions abstract thought and emotional intelligence over career aspirations. Written by esteemed poet Thylias Moss, the lyrical, first-person text gives it a depth and artistry that sets it apart from more direct self-esteem books.
A young African American girl thoughtfully considers what she wants to be. Her aspirations are not professions, but rather poetic, metaphorical states of being that represent personal qualities. She wants to be a window to let in light, a flower that cannot be picked (resilient), a faucet that cannot be turned off (a source of constant good), and ultimately, the laugh that brings joy after sadness. The illustrations by Jerry Pinkney visualize these imaginative concepts in a warm, family setting.
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