If Only...

Reach for this book when you notice your child is stuck in a cycle of comparison, whether they are feeling envious of a friend's new toy or wishing they possessed a peer's physical skill. It is a gentle antidote to the 'grass is always greener' mentality that often emerges as children become more socially aware of their surroundings. Through a series of vibrant garden encounters, each insect shares a secret wish to be someone else. The butterfly wants the privacy of a stick insect, while the stick insect wants the swimming skills of a beetle. The story circles back to show that while it is natural to admire others, there is immense value in our own unique capabilities. It is a visually stunning tool for building self-esteem and gratitude in children ages 3 to 6, helping them move from 'I wish I could' to 'I am glad I can.'