
A parent might reach for this book when their child asks why some families look different from their own or when they want to celebrate the universal warmth of a loving home. It is a beautiful resource for families formed through adoption or those with LGBTQ+ parents, but its message of belonging is vital for every child. The story follows a multi-ethnic family of three children and their two mothers as they grow up in a house filled with music, Italian cooking, and traditions. While the book centers on the joy of family life, it also gently touches on the reality that not everyone is kind to those who are different. It models how a strong family unit faces external judgment with grace and unity. Perfect for children ages 5 to 9, this book reinforces that a house becomes a home through the love and traditions shared within its walls. It is a heartfelt choice for fostering empathy and teaching children that there is no single right way to be a family.
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The book addresses discrimination and homophobia directly but in an age-appropriate way. The neighbor's exclusion is a secular conflict. The resolution is realistic: the family cannot change the neighbor's mind, but they remain steadfast in their own happiness and love. It also touches on the aging and eventual passing of the parents in the final pages, handled with a hopeful, legacy-focused lens.
A child in a non-traditional family seeking a mirror of their own experience, or an elementary student noticing social cliques and needing a story about the strength found in being oneself.
Parents should be prepared for the scene where a neighbor refuses to attend the family's party. It requires a conversation about how we can't control others' kindness, only our own response. A parent might see their child being excluded from a playdate or hearing a comment about their family structure and realize they need a way to talk about external bias.
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the cozy details of the art and the fun family activities. Older children (8-9) will better grasp the themes of social justice and the bittersweet passage of time.
Unlike many books about 'different' families that focus solely on the 'difference,' Polacco focuses on the lived experience of love, making the family's joy the primary narrative force.
Narrated by the oldest daughter, the story traces the life of an adopted, multi-ethnic family raised by two mothers (Meema and Mimi). It covers years of family traditions, from making pasta to hosting block parties, while documenting the children growing into adulthood. A subplot involves a neighbor who disapproves of the family's structure, providing a realistic look at social challenges.
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