
Reach for this book when your child seems embarrassed by a quirky habit, expresses worry about being 'weird,' or feels like they are the only person who does things a certain way. This charmingly illustrated book explores the private, often silly, and sometimes slightly gross habits we all share. It validates the inner life of a child by showing that everyone has secret thoughts and behaviors that they might feel shy about. Written in Shinsuke Yoshitake's signature deadpan style, the story follows a young protagonist who wonders if they are the only one who does things like making a 'straw hat' out of their shirt or feeling a certain way about their toes. It is an excellent tool for normalizing anxiety and building self-confidence by laughing at the universal awkwardness of being human. Best suited for children ages 4 to 8, it turns potential shame into a shared moment of connection and humor.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book is entirely secular and grounded in realistic, everyday experiences. It touches on minor bodily hygiene and 'gross-out' humor (like picking noses or smelling feet) in a direct, non-judgmental way. The resolution is hopeful and validating.
A first or second grader who has started to become self-conscious about their body or their habits in front of peers. It is perfect for the child who is observant and perhaps a bit of a perfectionist, needing permission to be messy and imperfect.
The book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared for some light 'toilet' or 'body' humor, which is handled with innocence rather than malice. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I'm so weird,' or 'Don't look at me,' after a small social blunder or a private habit is discovered.
Younger children (4-5) will enjoy the physical comedy and the silly illustrations. Older children (7-8) will deeply resonate with the psychological aspect of social embarrassment and the comfort of finding a 'tribe.'
Unlike many 'it's okay to be different' books that focus on large identity markers, Yoshitake focuses on the micro-behaviors and tiny private thoughts that truly define the childhood experience. The manga-inspired minimalist art adds a layer of sophisticated humor that appeals to both adults and children.
The book is a series of vignettes and observations by a young boy who questions his own 'strange' habits. He wonders if he is the only one who likes the smell of his own feet, gets his shirt stuck over his head, or has specific, odd ways of interacting with the world. He eventually finds a friend who shares some of these quirks, leading to a realization that being 'weird' is actually a universal human experience.
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