
Reach for this book when your child's inner critic silences their creativity, making them feel like nothing they create is 'right'. Ramon loves to draw, but a careless comment from his older brother makes him feel his art is all wrong. He crumples up his drawings in frustration, convinced he can no longer draw. That is, until his younger sister reveals she has been collecting his 'mistakes', celebrating them as wonderfully 'ish' creations. Her perspective helps Ramon see that 'ish' thinking, or embracing imperfection, is a joyful and freeing way to be creative. This gentle story for ages 4 to 8 is a perfect antidote to perfectionism. It beautifully illustrates themes of self-confidence, resilience, and the power of a sibling's love. It opens up conversations about how we talk about our own work and the work of others, providing comfort and a new vocabulary ('ish') for any child who fears they are not good enough.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the emotional themes of perfectionism, criticism, and self-doubt. The approach is direct but very gentle, framing the conflict as a common childhood experience. The resolution is entirely hopeful and empowering, offering a secular and psychological tool (the concept of 'ish') for managing these feelings.
A child aged 5-7 who is a budding perfectionist, who gets easily frustrated when their art, writing, or building blocks are not exactly as they imagined. It is perfect for a child who has recently been discouraged by criticism (from a peer, sibling, or even an adult) and is now hesitant to create.
This book can be read cold without any special preparation. However, a parent might want to preview the page where Ramon's brother laughs at his drawing. It serves as a good moment to pause and ask the child how they think that made Ramon feel, opening a door to talk about the impact of our words on others. A parent finds their child's crumpled artwork in the trash. They hear their child say, 'I'm no good at this,' or 'It's not right!' The child gives up quickly on creative projects they used to enjoy or erases their work constantly.
A younger child (4-5) will connect with the simple narrative of feeling sad and then happy, understanding the sibling dynamics. They will enjoy the loose, expressive illustrations. An older child (6-8) will grasp the deeper concept of 'ish' and can apply this liberating mindset to other areas where they feel pressure to be perfect, like schoolwork or sports.
Unlike many books that simply encourage trying your best, 'Ish' provides a tangible, memorable word and mental framework for children to actively combat perfectionism. The concept of 'ish' is a portable tool for self-acceptance. Peter H. Reynolds' signature minimalist, whimsical art style perfectly embodies the book's message, where the feeling and essence of the drawing are more important than photographic accuracy.
A young boy named Ramon, who loves to draw, becomes discouraged after his older brother, Leon, criticizes his drawing of a vase for not looking realistic. Struck by self-doubt, Ramon tries to draw perfectly but grows frustrated, crumpling every attempt. His younger sister, Marisol, secretly rescues these crumpled papers. When Ramon discovers her 'gallery of ish,' he sees his work through her eyes. She loves his 'vase-ish' drawing and his other imperfect creations. This revelation frees Ramon from his perfectionism, and he joyfully embraces an 'ish' mindset in his art and life.
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