
A parent might reach for this book when their teen is navigating the intense highs and lows of a first serious relationship and needs a story that acknowledges both the magic and the mess. It follows Isla, a shy American teen at a Parisian boarding school, as she finally connects with her long-time crush, Josh. Their romance is deeply felt but complicated by Isla’s powerful self-doubt and their uncertain futures after graduation. For older teens (14+), this book is a realistic, heartfelt look at how personal anxiety can impact a relationship. It moves beyond fairytale endings to show that true partnership requires self-acceptance and honest communication, making it a valuable read for teens idealizing love.
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Sign in to write a reviewMain character deals with significant social anxiety and intense self-doubt.
Depicts underage characters drinking alcohol in social settings.
The book deals with anxiety and self-worth directly. Isla's internal monologue is a constant stream of self-doubt, which is presented as a significant obstacle in her life and relationship. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: she does not “cure” her anxiety, but learns to manage it and communicate her needs, finding strength in herself and her relationship with Josh. Sexual situations are present but handled with an emotional focus rather than graphic detail. The approach is secular.
An older teen (15-18) who is either in or dreaming of a serious relationship. Specifically, a reader who struggles with social anxiety or insecurity and tends to put romantic partners on a pedestal. This book will resonate with anyone who has felt "not good enough" for someone they admire.
Parents should be aware of scenes involving underage drinking and sexual content (it is not explicit, but it is clearly happening). There is also occasional strong language. The book is part of a companion series but can easily be read as a standalone without any prior context. A parent hears their teen expressing intense self-doubt related to a crush or new partner ("They're too good for me," "I'm going to mess this up"). They might also witness their teen's mood being entirely dependent on the status of their relationship.
A 14-year-old might focus more on the swoon-worthy romance and the Parisian setting, viewing Isla's anxiety as simple shyness. An 18-year-old, closer to leaving home, will likely connect more deeply with the themes of post-high school uncertainty and the complex emotional work required to maintain a relationship through change.
While many YA romances focus on external obstacles, this book's primary conflict is internal. It is a masterful portrayal of how anxiety and low self-esteem can affect a relationship from the inside out. The focus on Isla's internal monologue is what makes this book stand out from more plot-driven romances.
Isla Martin, a shy senior at the School of America in Paris, finally connects with her long-time crush, aspiring artist Josh Wasserstein. The story follows their whirlwind romance, exploring the intense joys and anxieties of first love. Their relationship is tested by Isla's deep-seated insecurities, Josh's uncertain future after facing school discipline, and the pressures of their impending graduation and separation.
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