
A parent might reach for this book when their teen is struggling with the stigma or isolation of a family member's severe mental illness. 'It Looks Like This' follows high schooler Mike, who moves to a new town with his mom to be closer to the hospital where his father is being treated for schizophrenia. While navigating a new school and a tender first romance with a boy named Sean, Mike must confront the secrecy and shame he feels about his family's reality. This book is best for older teens (15+) as it handles themes of mental illness, identity, and first love with a raw honesty. It's a powerful tool for fostering empathy and starting conversations about complex family dynamics and the courage it takes to accept difficult truths.
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Includes a scene with underage drinking at a party.
The book deals directly and realistically with severe parental mental illness (schizophrenia), including descriptions of delusions and the strain on the family unit. The resolution is not a cure but a realistic acceptance, offering hope through personal growth and connection rather than a simple fix. It is a secular story. The book also directly addresses LGBTQ+ identity through the main character's discovery of his sexuality and his first M/M romance.
A teen aged 15-18 who feels alone due to a complex family secret, especially one related to a parent's chronic or mental illness. It's for a reader navigating their own identity (including sexuality) while simultaneously coping with a difficult and unpredictable home life. This will resonate with teens who feel they have to be the 'adult' in their family.
Parents should be prepared for frank depictions of schizophrenia's effects on a family. There is also an M/M romance that includes kissing and intimacy (not graphically detailed), some profanity, and a scene of underage drinking at a party. Previewing scenes of Mike's hospital visits with his father might be helpful. The book can be read cold, as it provides necessary context through Mike's perspective. A parent notices their teen has become withdrawn or secretive, particularly after a family crisis. They might hear their teen express feelings of being misunderstood or different. This is also a book for parents proactively seeking to open a conversation about mental illness in the family.
A younger teen (14-15) might focus more on the sweet romance and the external conflict of keeping the secret. An older teen (16-18) will likely connect more deeply with the nuanced themes of family responsibility, the ambiguity of loving someone who is ill, and the difficult process of forging an identity separate from a parent's condition.
Unlike many YA books that focus on depression or anxiety, this novel's unflinching look at schizophrenia in a parent is unique. It powerfully pairs this challenging topic with a gentle, supportive queer love story, demonstrating that love and connection are possible even in the most difficult circumstances. The authenticity of the teen's perspective as a family member, not the patient, is a key strength.
Sixteen-year-old Mike moves with his mother to a new town to be near the facility where his father is hospitalized for schizophrenia. Mike is determined to keep his family's situation a secret at his new high school. His resolve is tested when he meets and falls for Sean, an openly gay classmate. The developing relationship forces Mike to confront years of shame and isolation, and to decide whether he can trust someone with the most painful parts of his life. The story charts his journey toward self-acceptance, love, and a new understanding of his family.
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