
A parent might reach for this book when their child expresses a desire to be someone else or seems bored with their own life. In this classic story, a young bunny named P.J. Funnybunny decides he is tired of being a bunny. He sets off to try living as other animals: a bear, a bird, a pig, and a possum. With each attempt, he discovers the downsides and realizes that the grass isn't always greener. This simple, humorous tale gently explores themes of self-acceptance and gratitude for one's own family and home. Its repetitive structure and charming illustrations make it a perfect, reassuring read for preschoolers.
The core topic is identity and dissatisfaction with one's life, handled metaphorically and with great gentleness. The concept of a child leaving home is presented as a curious exploration, not a traumatic event. The approach is entirely secular, and the resolution is hopeful, simple, and affirming.
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Sign in to write a reviewA preschooler, aged 3 to 5, who is in a "grass is always greener" phase. This is for the child comparing themselves to a friend or sibling, or expressing boredom with their routine. It's a perfect first introduction to the theme of self-acceptance, without the complexity of deeper identity books.
No preparation is needed. This book can be read cold. The language is simple, and the story is self-contained and easy for a young child to understand. The "leaving home" aspect is very non-threatening. A parent has just heard their child say, "I wish I was a dog so I could play all day," or "Being me is so boring," or is generally expressing dissatisfaction with their own life in comparison to others.
A 3-year-old will focus on the humor of the animals, the simple, repetitive text structure, and the fun of P.J. trying to act like a pig or bird. A 5-year-old will better grasp the central message: that it's good to be yourself and appreciate what you have. They might connect it more directly to times they've wished they were someone else.
Its primary differentiator is its simplicity and suitability for a very young audience. Unlike more abstract books on identity, this one uses concrete, relatable examples (not wanting to eat worms, not wanting to sleep all winter). The repetitive "But..." structure is highly effective for toddlers and preschoolers, and Roger Bollen's classic, gentle art style gives it a timeless, comforting feel. It is a foundational "be yourself" book.
P.J. Funnybunny, a young bunny, is dissatisfied with his life. He leaves home to try living as other animals: a bear, a bird, a pig, and a possum. Each experience has its downsides (sleeping all winter, eating worms, rolling in mud, hanging upside down). Ultimately, P.J. realizes he misses his family and his life as a bunny and happily returns home, concluding that it's best being a bunny after all.
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