
Reach for this book when your teenager is feeling isolated by grief or struggling with a home life that feels heavy and chaotic. It speaks directly to the 'itch' of restless sorrow that many adolescents feel but cannot name. Set in the 1960s, the story follows Itch as she navigates the devastating loss of her grandfather while living in a household strained by her mother's alcoholism and a lack of emotional support. This is a raw, honest look at family dysfunction and the transformative power of empathy. Parents might choose this book to help their teen process complex emotions, demonstrating that while we cannot change our family circumstances, we can find our own path to healing through connection with others. It is best suited for mature middle schoolers and high schoolers due to its heavy themes.
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Sign in to write a reviewFrequent depictions of a parent's alcoholism and the resulting household neglect.
The story begins after the death, focusing on the aftermath and memory.
The book deals directly with death, bereavement, and parental substance abuse (alcoholism). The approach is realistic and gritty rather than metaphorical. It provides a secular look at grieving. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, emphasizing personal growth rather than a 'magic fix' for the family's problems.
A 13 or 14-year-old who feels like the 'odd one out' in their family or who is experiencing a 'secondary loss' (the loss of a support system following a death).
Parents should be aware of the depictions of the mother's drinking and the neglectful home environment. It is a 'read cold' book for most teens, but a follow-up conversation about healthy coping mechanisms vs. the mother's choices would be beneficial. A parent might see their child becoming increasingly cynical, withdrawing from family activities, or expressing frustration that 'no one understands' how much they miss a deceased relative.
Younger readers (12) will focus on the sadness of the loss and the unfairness of the home life. Older readers (15+) will better grasp the 1960s historical context and the nuances of the cycle of trauma.
Unlike many grief books that focus on a 'perfect' family coming together, Itch highlights how grief is compounded when the home environment is already broken, making the protagonist's resilience even more poignant.
Set in 1968, the story follows a young girl nicknamed Itch who is reeling from the death of her beloved grandfather, her only source of stability. Her home life is fractured by her mother's alcoholism and her grandmother's stern demeanor. While struggling with her own grief and the 'itch' of her difficult reality, she discovers a neighbor who is suffering in a different but equally profound way. Through this connection, she begins to find a sense of purpose and a way to manage her own pain.
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