
Reach for this book when your child feels overlooked by a busy household or is beginning to ask private, quiet questions about their own identity and first crushes. After a tornado destroys Ivy Aberdeen's home, her world is literally and figuratively turned upside down. While her parents are distracted by the chaos of displacement and a new baby, twelve-year-old Ivy is left to navigate the loss of her home and the discovery of her secret sketchbook, which contains drawings that reveal her attraction to other girls. This is a gentle, affirming story about the intersection of external trauma and internal discovery. It is perfectly pitched for middle schoolers, handling the themes of 'coming out' and self-acceptance with grace and sensitivity. It serves as a beautiful mirror for LGBTQ+ youth and a powerful window for peers, emphasizing that everyone deserves to be seen for who they truly are, especially when life feels most uncertain.
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Sign in to write a reviewThemes of displacement, loss of belongings, and feeling invisible to parents.
Depicts a middle-school crush, including hand-holding and innocent romantic feelings.
The book deals directly with sexual identity and the anxiety of coming out. The approach is secular and deeply personal. It also addresses the trauma of natural disasters and temporary homelessness. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on family reconciliation and self-acceptance.
A thoughtful 10 to 12 year old who loves art, feels like they are living in the shadow of siblings, or is beginning to realize their feelings for others might be different from their friends' experiences.
Read cold, but be prepared to discuss the concept of 'coming out.' There is a scene where Ivy's sister's reaction is initially hurtful, which may require context about how people sometimes react out of surprise rather than malice. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly private or 'disappearing' into their room or art, or perhaps a child has expressed feeling like they don't matter as much as their siblings during a family transition.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the mystery of the notes and the scary nature of the tornado. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the romantic yearning and the struggle for identity.
Unlike many LGBTQ+ stories that focus on older teens, this is a rare, age-appropriate 'first crush' story for the middle-grade set that balances personal identity with family dynamics and survival.
After a devastating tornado hits Georgia, Ivy Aberdeen's family is forced into a crowded hotel room. Amidst the chaos, Ivy's sketchbook, filled with drawings of girls holding hands, disappears. Soon, pages begin reappearing in her locker with encouraging notes from an anonymous source. As Ivy navigates the stress of being a 'middle child' in a crisis and her growing feelings for a girl named June, she must find the courage to reclaim her art and her identity.
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