Jake and Lily

Reach for this book when your child is struggling with a changing relationship with a sibling or a close friend, especially if they are feeling left behind as their peer begins to seek more independence. It is an ideal resource for navigating the transition from childhood play to the more complex social world of middle school. The story follows twins Jake and Lily, who have shared a psychic connection called 'whoompy' since birth, as they hit their eleventh summer and Jake starts hanging out with a new group of boys. Through alternating perspectives, the book explores the painful but necessary process of developing an individual identity outside of a pair. It deals with themes of loneliness, the pressure of peer influence, and the discovery of inner strength. While the story addresses bullying and social exclusion, it maintains a hopeful tone that emphasizes the endurance of family bonds even as they evolve. It is a gentle yet honest look at growing up that helps children normalize the feelings of loss that often accompany personal growth.