Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with feelings of isolation or is beginning to question the prejudices they have inherited from their environment. It is an essential resource for parents of teens who are navigating the transition to independence or who need to develop a deeper, more nuanced empathy for the LGBTQ+ community. The story follows fifteen-year-old Elle as she moves into her own apartment and forms an unexpected bond with her neighbor, Frank. As Elle discovers that Frank is a transgender man, she is forced to confront her own biases and the cruelty of those around her. The book handles themes of identity, loneliness, and social justice with a realistic touch that resonates with the 14 to 18 age group. It is an excellent choice for fostering open conversations about gender identity and the courage required to stand up for others, even when it is socially difficult.
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Sign in to write a reviewIncludes a scene where a character is physically assaulted due to their gender identity.
Themes of parental abandonment and extreme loneliness.
Occasional strong language consistent with realistic contemporary young adult fiction.
The book deals directly with gender identity, transphobia, and parental neglect. The approach is secular and highly realistic. While the book contains moments of intense prejudice and a physical assault, the resolution is hopeful, focusing on Elle's personal growth and the formation of a 'chosen family.'
A high schooler who feels like an outsider or who is curious about gender identity but may have been raised in a restrictive or traditional environment. It is perfect for a teen who values authenticity over social status.
Parents should be aware of a scene involving a violent physical attack on a transgender character. It is best to read this alongside the teen to discuss the social dynamics of prejudice. A parent might choose this after hearing their child use a slur or express confusion and fear regarding a peer's gender transition.
Younger teens (14) will focus on Elle's quest for independence and the 'coolness' of her apartment. Older teens (17-18) will better grasp the nuance of the social commentary and the complexity of the romantic tension.
Unlike many YA books that focus on the transgender character's internal journey, this book focuses on the ally's journey, making it a unique tool for teaching empathy and the deconstruction of personal bias.
Fifteen-year-old Elle is pushed into premature independence when her mother moves her into a private apartment to keep her away from her mother's new boyfriend. Lonely and adrift, Elle befriends her neighbors, particularly Frank, a kind and attractive man. When Elle learns Frank is a transgender man, she initially reacts with confusion and the prejudices of her upbringing. However, as she witnesses the systemic transphobia and physical dangers Frank faces, she must decide whether to retreat into safety or stand up for a friend who has shown her more kindness than her own family.
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