
Reach for this book when your child learns that a best friend or neighbor is moving away. It serves as a gentle guide for the heavy feelings of upcoming separation and the fear that a friendship might disappear along with the moving truck. The story follows Karen Brewer as she navigates the news that her best friend, Hannie, is moving to a different neighborhood. It captures the initial shock, the sadness of 'lasts,' and the creative ways children can maintain their bond despite physical distance. Written for the 7 to 9 age range, it provides a realistic but comforting template for saying goodbye. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's grief while offering practical, hopeful solutions for staying connected through letters and visits.
The book deals with the emotional transition of moving. The approach is direct and secular. It focuses on the loss of proximity and the anxiety of change. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, showing that while things will be different, the friendship remains intact.
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Sign in to write a reviewA second or third grader who is facing their first major social transition, specifically a child who thrives on routine and is struggling with the idea of a friend no longer being a permanent fixture in their daily life.
No specific scenes require previewing. The book can be read cold. It is helpful for parents to be ready to discuss how they stayed in touch with friends before social media, as Karen uses traditional methods like letters. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I'm never going to have a best friend again,' or noticing their child becoming clingy or irritable as a friend's moving date approaches.
Younger readers (7) will focus on the sadness of the 'last' playdate. Older readers (9) will better grasp the nuance of Karen's blended family dynamics and the logistics of staying in touch.
Unlike books where a friend moves to another state, this focuses on a local move that still disrupts the 'neighborhood' feel of a friendship, making it highly relatable for many families.
Karen Brewer is devastated to learn her best friend and 'Pinky' partner, Hannie, is moving to a new house. Though Hannie isn't moving across the country, the distance is enough to change their daily routines at school and play. The story follows Karen as she processes her sadness, helps Hannie pack, and eventually plans a special goodbye that emphasizes their lasting bond.
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