
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with sportsmanship or finds themselves overwhelmed by big feelings during competition. Karen Brewer is thrilled to join a softball team, but she quickly discovers that being a 'sore loser' or an 'arrogant winner' can hurt her friendships. The story explores how to navigate the highs and lows of athletics while maintaining respect for teammates and opponents alike. It is a relatable choice for children aged 6 to 9 who are entering organized sports or dealing with sibling rivalry in a blended family. This early chapter book models how to take accountability for one's behavior and make a genuine apology when emotions get the best of you.
The book features Karen's life in a blended family (two houses, two sets of parents), which is handled as a normal, established reality. The approach is secular and realistic. There are no major traumas, only the everyday social friction of childhood.
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Sign in to write a reviewA second or third grader who is highly competitive and perhaps a bit of a perfectionist. Specifically, a child who has recently had a 'meltdown' during a board game or sports match and needs a safe way to reflect on that experience.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to highlight the scene where Karen's friends call her out on her behavior, as it provides a natural opening to discuss how our actions affect others. A parent might reach for this after seeing their child throw a bat, storm off the field, or brag unkindly to a sibling after a victory.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the excitement of the game and Karen's basic feelings. Older readers (8-9) will better grasp the social nuances of her friendships and the internal struggle of controlling one's temper.
Unlike many sports books that focus on 'winning the big game,' this story focuses entirely on the internal character development of the athlete and the social consequences of poor sportsmanship.
Karen Brewer joins a local softball team, the Bobby's Batters. While she is excited about the game, her competitive nature leads to boasting when she wins and sulking or anger when she loses. After several outbursts that alienate her teammates and her brother Andrew, Karen must learn what it truly means to be a team player. The story culminates in Karen realizing that the game is about more than just the score, leading to an apology and a shift in attitude.
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