
A parent would reach for this book when their child is struggling with a change in household dynamics or resisting a new caregiver's authority. It is particularly helpful for families navigating the specific friction that occurs when a 'big kid' feels their independence is being undermined by a nanny or sitter who does things differently than Mom or Dad. The story follows young Karen Brewer as she adjust to a new nanny, focusing on themes of adaptability, communicating frustration, and learning that new people can bring new kinds of fun to the family. It is an ideal choice for elementary-aged children who value routine and are learning to navigate the 'give and take' of blended family life. By modeling Karen's shift from resentment to acceptance, the book helps children process their own feelings of being 'bossed around' while opening a door for parents to discuss house rules and mutual respect.





















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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the complexities of a blended family and the temporary absence of parents. The approach is direct and secular. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the child's ability to form new bonds outside the immediate parental circle.
An 8-year-old who is protective of their routine and feels 'too old' for a babysitter. It is perfect for children in blended families who move between households and feel they have finally mastered the rules of one house, only to have them changed.
Read cold. The book is straightforward. Parents may want to discuss the scene where Karen is particularly stubborn to help the child identify those feelings. A parent might see their child being unusually defiant, 'talking back' to a caregiver, or complaining that a sitter is 'too mean' just because they enforce basic rules.
Younger readers (6-7) focus on the fun activities the nanny introduces. Older readers (8-9) relate more to the loss of autonomy and the social dynamics of having a 'boss' in the house.
Unlike many 'sitter' books that focus on the sitter's perspective, this captures the visceral frustration of the child who feels their home turf is being invaded by a stranger's rules.
Karen Brewer's parents are going away for a week, and a new nanny named Rosalind is coming to stay. Karen is used to being the 'big kid' and having things her way, especially in her 'big house' with her father and stepmother. When Rosalind arrives with a strict schedule and new ways of doing things, Karen initially rebels. The story follows Karen as she tests boundaries, feels the sting of losing her usual freedom, and eventually discovers that Rosalind is actually quite kind and fun once the power struggle subsides.
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