
Reach for this book when your child is navigating the tricky social waters of a new friendship or feeling the sting of being 'replaced' by a peer. It is an ideal choice for the early elementary reader who is starting to experience the complexities of best friend dynamics, specifically the jealousy that can arise when a new person enters an established social circle. In this story, Karen Brewer meets a new friend named Addie and is thrilled, but she quickly realizes that balancing old friends with new ones is harder than it looks. The book explores the nuances of loyalty and the fear of being left out in a way that is gentle and highly relatable. Parents will appreciate how it models open communication and the realization that a heart can always grow to include more people.
The book touches upon Karen's life in a blended family (living between 'big house' and 'little house'), which is handled with a realistic and secular approach. The resolution is hopeful and practical, focusing on social problem-solving.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 7 to 9-year-old girl who is highly social but currently struggling with the 'three's a crowd' dynamic at school or in the neighborhood.
This book can be read cold. Parents may want to discuss the concept of 'two-house' families if the child is unfamiliar with Karen's background from previous books in the series. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'Hannie doesn't want to play with me anymore because I played with Addie,' or seeing their child struggle to include a new student without alienating old friends.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the fun activities Karen and Addie do together. Older readers (8-9) will better grasp the internal conflict Karen feels regarding her loyalty to Hannie and Nancy.
Unlike many books that focus on a 'mean girl' dynamic, this story focuses on a 'good kid' making a common social mistake and learning how to rectify it through empathy.
Karen Brewer, a spunky seven-year-old, meets Addie, a girl who is just like her in many ways. They hit it off instantly, but Karen's excitement leads to her neglecting her existing best friends, Hannie and Nancy. The story follows Karen as she navigates 'best friend' labels and the social fallout of favoring one person over others, eventually learning that friendship isn't a zero-sum game.
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