
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the sting of disappointment, particularly regarding school plays, sports, or social hierarchies. It is a perfect choice for children who struggle with the 'big feelings' that arise from being passed over for a coveted role or when a best friend gets the spotlight they wanted for themselves. Karen Brewer, a relatable seven-year-old, navigates the competitive atmosphere of a school pageant while managing the dynamics of her blended family. The story centers on Karen's desire to be the star of the school play and the subsequent jealousy she feels when her friend is cast in the lead. It provides a gentle, realistic framework for discussing envy, fair play, and how to be a supportive friend even when you are hurting. Ideal for early elementary readers, this book models how to process frustration and find pride in one's own contributions, no matter the size.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the complexities of blended families (Karen refers to her 'big house' and 'little house' families), which is handled with a secular, matter-of-fact, and highly realistic approach. The primary emotional conflict of jealousy is resolved in a hopeful, age-appropriate manner.
An 8-year-old who is highly competitive or performance-oriented and may need help understanding that their value isn't tied to being 'number one' or the center of attention.
No specific scenes require advance vetting, though parents should be prepared to discuss the concept of 'two families' if the child is unfamiliar with Karen's specific blended family structure. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say 'It's not fair!' regarding a teacher's choice, or if they notice their child being cold toward a friend who recently had a success.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the excitement of the play and the 'mean' feelings of jealousy. Older readers (9-10) will better grasp the nuance of Karen's internal struggle between her own ego and her loyalty to Hannie.
Unlike many books that solve jealousy with a 'magic' second chance, Karen actually has to live with the smaller role and find genuine satisfaction in it, making it a superior tool for teaching resilience.
Karen Brewer is determined to play Snow White in her school's winter pageant. When her best friend Hannie is cast in the lead role instead, Karen is devastated and struggles with intense feelings of jealousy and resentment. As the rehearsals progress, Karen must decide if she will let her disappointment ruin the play and her friendship, or if she can find a way to shine in her smaller role while supporting her friend.
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