Katie and the Puppy Next Door

by written and illustrated by John Himmelman

For the child who struggles when a friend or sibling plays with their favorite toys. This story validates the tricky feelings of jealousy and territory.

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About This Book

Reach for this book when your child is struggling with the arrival of a new sibling, a playdate guest who takes over, or general territorial feelings regarding their space and toys. It offers a safe, non-judgmental space to explore the difficult reality that sharing is not always a choice we want to make, especially when it feels like our boundaries are being crossed. Through the eyes of Katie the dog, the story validates the hot, prickly feelings of frustration and jealousy that arise when a newcomer (the puppy next door) eats our food and plays with our things. By using a pet protagonist, it creates a gentle distance that allows children to recognize their own behavior without feeling lectured. It is a perfect choice for preschoolers and early elementary students who are learning the complex social dance of hospitality and personal boundaries.

Jealousy & Comparison Dogs Making Friends Friendship & Social Anger & Frustration Sharing with Siblings Animals Friendship & Loyalty

What Parents Should Know

Sad ThemesMild

Brief feelings of being replaced or unimportant.

Sensitive Topics

The book is secular and realistic in its depiction of social conflict. There are no heavy trauma topics, though the feeling of 'invasion of space' is handled with direct emotional honesty.