
Reach for this book when your child has 'too much love' for a new pet, a younger sibling, or a peer, and their high energy is unintentionally causing distress. It is the perfect tool for a child who struggles with impulse control but possesses a deeply kind heart. The story follows Katie, a dog whose explosive joy at seeing new kittens constantly scares them away, leading to feelings of sadness and rejection. Through Katie's journey, children see their own big feelings mirrored without judgment. The book emphasizes that self-regulation and patience are not punishments, but ways to show true care for others. It is ideal for ages 3 to 7, offering a gentle roadmap for how to calm one's body to build a safe, trusting connection with someone smaller or more timid. Parents will appreciate how it validates the child's excitement while modeling the successful 'quiet' behavior needed for social harmony.
The book deals with minor themes of shame and social rejection in a secular, realistic way. The resolution is hopeful and practical, focusing on behavioral adjustment rather than a change in personality.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn exuberant preschooler or kindergartner who is often told to use their 'inside voice' or to stop 'touching too hard,' specifically those who are struggling to adjust to a new baby or a nervous pet at home.
This book can be read cold. The illustrations of Katie's sad face are quite evocative, so parents should be prepared to discuss the feeling of being 'in trouble' for just being excited. A parent might reach for this after a playdate where their child's physical over-excitement caused another child to cry, or after repeatedly telling a child to 'be gentle' with a pet.
For a 3-year-old, the focus is on the funny dog and the cute kittens. For a 6 or 7-year-old, the takeaway is more sophisticated: understanding that our actions affect others' feelings regardless of our intentions.
Unlike many 'manners' books, this one focuses on the internal emotional struggle of the 'aggressor.' It makes Katie a sympathetic protagonist rather than a 'bad' dog, which helps children with ADHD or high energy identify with the solution rather than the shame.
Katie the dog is thrilled when her owner brings home three kittens. However, every time Katie tries to show her affection, her loud barks and pouncing movements terrify the kittens, causing them to flee. Katie feels ashamed and sad when she is scolded or ignored. Eventually, Katie falls asleep, and her stillness allows the kittens to feel safe enough to approach her. When she wakes up, she realizes that being quiet and gentle is the key to the friendship she craves.
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