
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager feels like they are watching life from the sidelines, struggling to find a community where they can be their most authentic, messy self. Nima is a seventeen-year-old girl navigating the aftermath of her mother leaving and the quiet ache of suburban isolation. Her world expands when she discovers the vibrant, inclusive world of drag, which serves as a catalyst for her to explore her own gender identity and confidence. Through humor and heart, the story addresses deep emotional themes of belonging, the courage to be seen, and the importance of queer mentorship. It is a celebratory, realistic contemporary novel that helps teenagers understand that finding your 'people' often starts with finding the courage to step into a new space.
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Sign in to write a reviewSweet teenage romance including some flirting and kissing.
Explores the emotional impact of a parent leaving the family.
The book addresses parental abandonment and identity questioning through a direct, secular lens. The resolution is highly hopeful and empowering, focusing on chosen family as a valid and vital support system.
A high schooler who feels like a 'misfit' in traditional social circles and is looking for permission to experiment with their identity without the pressure of having all the answers right away.
Parents should be aware of the mature themes inherent in drag culture, including some frank discussions of gender and sexuality. It is helpful to read this alongside your teen to discuss the difference between performance and identity. A parent might notice their child withdrawing, expressing that they don't 'fit in' with their current peer group, or showing a sudden interest in performance or queer culture as a means of self-expression.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the excitement of the performance and the 'cool factor' of the drag world. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more deeply with the nuances of Nima's relationship with her absent mother and her internal gender journey.
Unlike many YA books that focus on 'coming out' as a singular event, this book focuses on the iterative process of 'becoming' through the specific, artistic medium of drag performance.
Nima is a Sri Lankan-Canadian teenager living in a small town where she feels perpetually out of place. After a chance encounter at a local festival, she is drawn into the local drag scene. Under the mentorship of drag kings and queens, she begins to experiment with her own performance and gender expression, while also navigating a crush and the lingering emotional fallout of her mother's departure.
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