
A parent should reach for this book when their child begins to push back against physical affection, like hugs or kisses, from family members. This humorous story is about a little monster named Andy who loves his family but hates their big, sloppy, yucky kisses. He runs and hides, which makes his family sad, until he comes up with a clever invention to solve the problem for everyone. It gently opens a conversation about personal space, bodily autonomy, and how love can be shown in different ways. For kids 4 to 7, it's a funny, lighthearted way to validate their feelings and show that it's okay to set boundaries, even with people you love.
The book's central theme is bodily autonomy and consent regarding physical affection. The approach is entirely metaphorical and humorous, using monsters and exaggeratedly gross kisses to lighten the topic. It is secular. The resolution is hopeful, creative, and empowering for the child character, who solves his own problem.
This book is ideal for a child aged 4 to 7 who is either beginning to assert their independence by rejecting physical affection or is naturally more reserved and feels overwhelmed by well-meaning relatives. It also appeals to children who enjoy silly humor and stories about inventions.
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Sign in to write a reviewNo specific preparation is needed; the book can be read cold. The cartoonish illustrations of slobber and monster anatomy are silly, not scary. A parent should be ready to talk about the ideas raised, such as how different people like to show and receive love. The parent has just witnessed their child wiping off a kiss, dodging a hug from a grandparent, or flatly saying "no" to physical affection. The parent feels a mix of embarrassment and concern, wanting to honor their child's feelings without offending loved ones.
A younger child (4-5) will mostly enjoy the slapstick humor of the yucky kisses and the fun monster characters. An older child (6-8) will better understand the underlying emotional problem: Andy wants to show he loves his family while also respecting his own personal boundaries. They will appreciate the cleverness of his invention as a form of problem-solving.
Unlike many books on consent that can be very direct, this one uses humor and a fantastical monster setting to make the topic of physical boundaries feel safe and approachable. The focus on creative, child-led problem-solving, rather than simple refusal, is a unique and empowering angle that models compromise and ingenuity.
Andy, a young monster, is constantly subjected to overly affectionate and sloppy kisses from his loving family. He finds them disgusting and goes to great lengths to avoid them, which inadvertently hurts his family's feelings. After some thought, Andy invents the "Kiss Squeezer 3000," a machine that delivers a perfect, non-slobbery kiss, satisfying both his need for personal space and his family's desire to show affection.
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