
Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the aftermath of a profound loss and is retreating into books, movies, or fantasy to cope. It is a vital resource for the young person who feels out of sync with their peers because they are carrying the heavy, invisible burden of grief while everyone else seems focused on romance. The story follows sixteen year old Eva, who is grieving the sudden death of her father while navigating her first big crush. As she embarks on a cross country road trip with her best friend to find the boy she thinks she loves, she discovers that real life and real love are far more complicated than the romance novels she devours. This is a grounded, compassionate look at the intersection of mourning and coming of age, offering a hopeful path forward for teens who feel stuck in their sadness. It normalizes the messiness of healing and the importance of female friendship as a stabilizing force during life's hardest transitions.
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Sign in to write a reviewFocus on first crushes, kissing, and teenage romantic expectations.
Brief mentions of teenage drinking and smoking.
Some realistic teenage profanity.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent. The approach is secular and deeply realistic, focusing on the physiological and psychological weight of grief. There are also mentions of historical trauma regarding the protagonist's Jewish heritage and the experience of flight. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that grief doesn't disappear; it just changes shape.
A high schooler who feels like an outsider, perhaps because they have experienced a loss that their friends don't understand. It is perfect for the teen who uses fiction as a shield and needs to be gently nudged back into the world.
Parents should be aware of some mild sexual references and teenage drinking. The book is best read as a bridge to discuss how the family is handling their collective grief. A parent might see their teen becoming increasingly withdrawn, obsessive over fictional worlds, or struggling to communicate about a shared family tragedy.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the 'adventure' of the road trip. Older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the nuanced exploration of the mother-daughter relationship and the critique of romantic tropes.
Unlike many YA romances, this book uses the 'quest for a boy' as a subverted trope to explore the profound depth of female friendship and the specific cultural weight of Jewish identity and history.
Eva, a smart and bookish sixteen year old, is reeling from the sudden death of her father a year prior. To cope, she immerses herself in romance novels and poetry. When she meets Will at a summer program, she convinces herself he is her 'happily ever after.' When he moves to California, Eva and her best friend Annie concoct a plan to travel across the country to see him by competing in a game show. The journey becomes less about the boy and more about Eva's relationship with her mother, her heritage, and her own capacity to heal.
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