Reach for this book when your child is dealing with a playground braggart or a relative who turns every holiday into a cutthroat competition. It is an ideal choice for the elementary schooler who feels demoralized by a 'sore winner' and needs to see that their frustration is valid and shared by others. The story follows Gilbert the opossum as he navigates an Easter egg hunt with his overbearing Cousin Wally, who insists on being first at everything. Through humor and relatable animal characters, the book explores the tension between wanting to win and wanting to have fun. It is perfectly pitched for ages 4 to 8, providing a safe space to discuss fairness, sportsmanship, and how to stand up for oneself without losing your own holiday spirit.
The book deals with social dynamics and minor bullying (bragging/exclusion) in a secular, realistic way. The resolution is hopeful and grounded in social justice rather than a magical change of heart.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 6-year-old who came home from school upset because a friend told them they were 'too slow' or a child who dreads family gatherings because an older cousin dominates every activity.
Read this cold. The humor is visual, so keep an eye on the background details in the illustrations where Wally is being particularly 'extra.' A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'I don't want to play anymore because it's not fair,' or witnessing their child being pushed aside by a more aggressive peer.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the excitement of the egg hunt and the 'mean' behavior of Wally. Older children (7-8) will appreciate the irony and the specific social strategies Gilbert uses to reclaim his dignity.
Unlike many holiday books that focus on the magic of the event, deGroat focuses on the messy, realistic social friction that occurs when personalities clash during high-stakes childhood traditions.
Gilbert is excited for the annual Easter egg hunt at Lola's house, but his joy is dampened by Cousin Wally. Wally is a classic 'first-place-only' competitor who brags about his speed and egg-collecting prowess. After Wally pushes things too far by cheating and gloating, Gilbert and his friends find a clever, humorous way to turn the tables and show Wally that being first isn't the same as being a friend.
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