
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling with the transition to adulthood or feeling like they have to keep their true self under wraps to maintain the status quo. It is an essential read for teens who feel like they are perpetually the 'sidekick' in their friend group and are ready to step into their own spotlight. The story follows Leah Burke, a talented drummer and artist, through the high-stakes emotions of her senior year of high school. It masterfully explores the intersection of bisexuality, body image, and the anxiety of changing friendships. While the book deals with complex social dynamics and romantic discovery, it remains grounded in a realistic, secular world. Parents will appreciate how Albertalli captures the 'sharp edges' of teenage personality, Leah is not always polite or easy, which makes her growth into self-acceptance feel earned and authentic. It is appropriate for older teens (14+) due to some mature language and the nuances of navigating high school social hierarchies and evolving identities.
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Sign in to write a reviewTeens kissing, discussions of attraction, and emotional romantic tension.
Themes of friendship drifting and the anxiety of major life transitions.
Brief mentions of high school parties where alcohol may be present.
The book handles LGBTQ+ identity (specifically bisexuality and coming out) with a direct, secular approach. It also touches on body image and socioeconomic differences. The resolution is realistic and deeply hopeful, emphasizing that while change is scary, it is necessary for growth.
A 16-year-old who feels like the 'sarcastic one' in their group and is quietly struggling with their identity or a crush that feels impossible. It’s for the teen who is tired of pretending they have it all figured out.
Parents should be aware of frequent strong language and frank discussions about teenage romance. The book can be read cold, but knowing it is a sequel to Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda provides helpful context for the friend group dynamics. A parent might notice their child becoming more withdrawn, using sarcasm as a shield, or expressing anxiety about 'prom season' and the end of high school friendships.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the romance and the 'coolness' of the senior year experience. Older teens (17-18) will resonate more deeply with the fear of moving on and the complexity of identity labels.
Unlike many YA novels that feature a 'perfect' protagonist, Leah is intentionally prickly and defensive. This makes her journey toward vulnerability uniquely powerful and relatable for teens who don't fit the 'sunny' mold.
Leah Burke is a senior in high school, an artist, and a drummer. While her best friend Simon has already come out, Leah is still privately navigating her bisexuality. As the friend group prepares for prom and graduation, Leah finds herself developing unexpected feelings for someone within her tight-knit circle, threatening the group's stability and her own sense of security.
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