
A parent would reach for this book when their child is paralyzed by a fear of failure or struggling with a new, intimidating environment. The story follows 12-year-old perfectionist Daphne, whose world is upended when she moves to a quirky new school and must face her biggest fear: falling, both literally on the rock-climbing wall and figuratively in her social life. This gentle, realistic story beautifully explores themes of resilience, self-acceptance, and the courage to embrace imperfection. For ages 8-12, it is a comforting read that normalizes anxiety and models how supportive friendships can help us face our fears.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe primary sensitive topic is anxiety and perfectionism, handled with a direct and gentle approach. The resolution is hopeful and realistic, focusing on progress rather than a complete cure. Daphne's family experiences a socioeconomic shift, but this is treated as a fact of life rather than a source of deep conflict or shame. The approach is secular.
An 8-12 year old child who is a perfectionist, academically focused, and hesitant to try new things for fear of not being good at them immediately. This is for the child who gets frustrated and gives up, or who avoids activities where they might look foolish.
No specific prep needed. The book can be read cold. Parents might want to be ready to discuss their own experiences with failure and learning new things to connect with the book's themes. The challenges are very child-appropriate. The parent hears their child say "I can't do it," "I'm not good at it," or "What if I fail?" before even trying a new sport, instrument, or school project. The child might exhibit physical signs of anxiety when faced with a new challenge.
A younger reader (8-9) will connect with the straightforward fear of rock climbing and the idea of making new friends. An older reader (10-12) will grasp the more nuanced themes of perfectionism, social self-consciousness (especially about her dad's job), and the internal pressure to succeed.
Many books address bravery, but this one's strength is its specific focus on the fear of *failure* and *imperfection* rather than a fear of monsters or external dangers. It uniquely ties a physical challenge (rock climbing) to an internal, emotional one (perfectionism), making the abstract concept of resilience very concrete and accessible.
Daphne, a 12-year-old perfectionist, moves with her family to a small town in Oregon where her father takes a job as the janitor at her new, quirky school. Daphne's deep-seated fear of failure is put to the test when she is required to participate in Outdoor School, which includes rock climbing. She must navigate new friendships, her own anxiety, and the challenge of letting go of her need to be perfect.
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