
Reach for this book if your child seems to process the world through facts and logic rather than feelings, or if they are struggling to connect with peers due to social-emotional barriers. Lenny is a gifted student who has compartmentalized his emotions to the point of being perceived as cold or difficult. Through a supportive relationship with a school counselor and an unexpected friendship with Van, a boy facing leukemia, Lenny begins the difficult work of opening his heart. This is a poignant and realistic choice for middle schoolers (ages 10-14) that addresses neurodivergence, grief, and the vulnerability of friendship. It helps children understand that being 'smart' isn't just about grades, but about the emotional intelligence required to care for others. Parents will find it a valuable tool for discussing empathy and the way different people experience and express their internal worlds.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book involves the decline of a friend's health and themes of mortality.
Medical procedures and the uncertainty of illness.
The book deals directly and realistically with childhood cancer and the potential for loss. It is secular in its approach to grief. While the ending is poignant and heavy, the resolution is hopeful regarding Lenny's personal growth and his capacity for resilience.
A middle-schooler who feels like an outsider due to their intellectual intensity or social differences. It is particularly suited for kids who struggle with 'big feelings' and might find comfort in a protagonist who also finds emotions overwhelming or unnecessary.
Parents should be aware of the scenes involving Van's medical decline. It is best to read this alongside the child or be available to talk about the ending, as the themes of illness and mortality are central. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I don't need friends,' or after a teacher mentions that the child is struggling to show empathy or cooperate in group settings.
Younger readers (10-11) may focus on the school dynamics and Lenny's 'cool' logical mind. Older readers (12-14) will better grasp the nuance of his psychological growth and the gravity of Van's illness.
Unlike many 'sickness' books, this isn't just about the patient. It's a sophisticated look at how a neurodivergent-coded protagonist learns the utility of emotion through the lens of a terminal friendship.
Lenny is academically brilliant but socially isolated, often frustrating teachers and peers with his lack of emotional affect. He spends significant time with a school counselor who provides a safe space for him to explore his identity. His world shifts when he befriends Van, a peer with leukemia. As Van's health fluctuates, Lenny is forced to confront the feelings he has long suppressed, moving from a sterile, logical existence toward emotional maturity and human connection.
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