
Reach for this book when your child feels like they do not measure up to expectations or is struggling to find their place in a group. It is a perfect choice for the 'gentle soul' who feels pressured to be something they are not, whether that is being tough, athletic, or traditionally successful. Leonardo is a monster who is supposed to be scary, but he simply is not. After a failed attempt to find the most 'scare-able' kid in the world, he realizes that his true talent is not in frightening others, but in being a wonderful friend. Mo Willems uses his signature humor and expressive illustrations to explore themes of empathy, identity, and the courage to change one's mind. The story normalizes the feeling of being a 'failure' at a specific task and pivots that energy toward social-emotional success. It is a comforting, funny, and deeply validating read for children aged 3 to 8 who are navigating the complexities of making friends and being themselves.
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Sign in to write a reviewSam has a long list of things making him sad, which might resonate with sensitive children.
The book deals with social rejection and the feeling of inadequacy through a metaphorical lens. It is entirely secular and offers a hopeful, empowering resolution where the protagonist redefines success on his own terms.
A preschooler or early elementary student who is sensitive, perhaps prone to 'failing' at competitive tasks, or a child who is just beginning to understand that other people have complex inner lives and 'bad days.'
This book is excellent for a 'cold' read. Parents should prepare to use different voices for Sam's long, fast-paced list of grievances to emphasize the humor and the character's overwhelm. A parent might reach for this after seeing their child try very hard to fit into a certain mold (like being 'tough' on the playground) and failing, or after witnessing their child show an unexpected spark of empathy for someone else's distress.
Younger children (3-4) will focus on the silly monster visuals and the basic idea of being nice. Older children (6-8) will appreciate the irony of the word 'terrible' and the sophisticated shift Leonardo makes from self-centered goals to empathetic action.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books, this one specifically highlights the moment of choice: Leonardo decides to change his nature based on someone else's need. It champions empathy as a superpower.
Leonardo is a monster who lacks the traditional 'scary' traits: he doesn't have 1,642 teeth or a massive size. Determined to be a 'terrible' monster (meaning a good one), he targets Sam, the most sensitive boy he can find. When Sam starts crying, Leonardo thinks he succeeded, but Sam reveals he is actually upset about a series of bad luck events. Leonardo makes a conscious choice to stop trying to be scary and instead becomes Sam's best friend.
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