
Reach for this book when your child feels like they are failing to meet a social expectation or is struggling with the pressure to be 'tough' or 'scary.' It speaks beautifully to children who worry they aren't good at what they are 'supposed' to be doing. Leonardo is a monster who is a total failure at being scary, but through his struggle, he discovers a much more rewarding talent: being a great friend and a wonderful listener. This charming story uses humor and expressive illustrations to explore themes of empathy, individuality, and the power of choosing kindness over performance. It is a perfect choice for preschoolers and early elementary children who are navigating the complexities of making friends and finding their own unique place in the world.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles Sam's emotional breakdown with secular empathy. Sam's problems (a mean brother, a stubbed toe, a dropped bird) are realistic childhood stressors. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, focusing on agency and choice.
A 4-year-old who feels overshadowed by peers or siblings, or a sensitive child who is overwhelmed by the 'rough and tumble' expectations of social play.
None needed. The book is designed for a cold read, though parents should be prepared to do a very dramatic 'monster roar' and then a very fast-paced reading of Sam's long list of problems. A parent might choose this after seeing their child try to act 'tough' to fit in, or conversely, after their child comes home crying because they felt they weren't 'good' at a specific social role.
Younger children (3-4) focus on the funny monster shapes and the 'scary' faces. Older children (5-6) grasp the internal conflict Leonardo faces: the choice between who he is 'supposed' to be and who he wants to be.
Unlike many 'don't be afraid' books, this focuses on the perspective of the 'scary' thing and validates the choice to be kind as a position of strength rather than a failure of nature.
Leonardo is a monster who simply isn't scary. He doesn't have 1,000 teeth or a giant size. He tries his best to find the most 'scary-able' kid in the world (Sam) and give it his best shot. When Sam bursts into tears, Leonardo thinks he's succeeded, until Sam reveals a long list of real-life woes. Leonardo then makes a conscious decision to stop trying to be a monster and start being a friend.
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