
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the quiet, lingering grief of losing a parent or is struggling to find their voice in a home where their pain feels unseen. It is a deeply moving tool for children who internalize their emotions and need a healthy model for processing complex feelings like resentment, abandonment, and cultural identity. In this lyrical novel, a young Afro-Cuban girl writes secret letters to her deceased mother to cope with the harshness of her new life living with an aunt and cousins who treat her poorly. Through her letters, she navigates the pain of racism within her own family and the slow journey toward healing. This book is best suited for mature readers aged 9 to 12 who are ready for a realistic, secular exploration of grief that offers no easy answers but provides a powerful example of resilience through creativity.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts colorism and verbal prejudice from family members toward the protagonist.
The mother's death occurs before the book begins; it is the central premise.
The book deals directly with death and grief in a secular manner. It also addresses internal family racism (colorism) and emotional abuse. The resolution is realistic and hopeful rather than a magical happy ending, focusing on the protagonist's internal growth.
A middle-schooler who feels misunderstood by their guardians or who is using art and writing to process a significant life change or loss.
Parents should be aware of the depictions of colorism (the protagonist is mocked for having darker skin than her cousins). It is helpful to read this with the child to discuss how people process grief differently. A parent might choose this after seeing their child withdraw into a journal or hearing them express feelings of not 'fitting in' with their extended family after a loss.
Younger readers (9-10) will focus on the 'mean' cousins and the sadness of the mother being gone. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of the protagonist's cultural identity and the systemic nature of the family's cruelty.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the funeral or the immediate aftermath, this book explores the 'long tail' of grief and the intersection of mourning with racial identity in a Caribbean context.
The story follows an unnamed Afro-Cuban girl who, after her mother's death, is sent to live with her aunt and cousins. She is treated as an outsider and faces colorism and emotional neglect within the household. To cope, she writes letters to her mother, chronicling her daily struggles, her memories, and her gradual realization of her own worth.
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