
Reach for this book when your child feels overshadowed by siblings, frustrated by household rules, or simply needs to feel like the master of their own universe. It is a perfect choice for the preschooler or early elementary student who has reached their 'breaking point' with family dynamics and is expressing a desire to run away or find a new life elsewhere. The story follows Loula, a young girl fed up with her three mean brothers, as she decides to leave for Africa. What follows is a beautifully staged pretend journey facilitated by her family's chauffeur, Gilbert, who takes her imaginative needs seriously. This book validates a child's big, messy feelings of anger and resentment while showing them that the adults in their life are a safe harbor. It turns a moment of family tension into an opportunity for creative play and emotional connection.
The book deals with sibling rivalry and the desire to run away from home. The approach is secular and highly metaphorical. While the 'threat' of leaving home can be scary for some children, the resolution is deeply hopeful and grounded in the security of a supportive adult relationship.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 4 to 6 year old who is struggling with 'middle child' energy or feeling picked on by older siblings. It is specifically for the child who uses grand gestures or dramatic statements to express their need for attention.
This book can be read cold. It is helpful for parents to notice how Gilbert never corrects Loula's imagination, he simply joins it. A parent might reach for this after their child shouts 'I'm leaving!' or 'I hate it here!' during a conflict with siblings.
Younger children (3-4) will enjoy the literal adventure and the animals. Older children (6-7) will recognize the humor in the 'pretend' nature of the trip and relate more deeply to the social dynamics of wanting to escape annoying brothers.
Unlike many 'running away' books that focus on the child realizing they miss their bed, this book focuses on the importance of an adult ally who validates the child's feelings through the power of play.
Loula is reaching her limit with her three brothers. In a fit of frustration, she packs a small bag and announces she is leaving for Africa. Rather than dismissing her or scolding her, the family chauffeur, Gilbert, offers to take her there. They embark on a highly imaginative journey that takes them through 'deserts' and 'jungles' (all while remaining safely in a nearby park). By the end of the trip, Loula feels seen, heard, and ready to return home to her family.
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