About This Book
Reach for this book when your child is asserting their independence or following the beat of their own drum while their peers or siblings are all doing the same thing. Through a rhythmic, repetitive structure, Denise Fleming explores the tension between imitation and individuality. While Fluffy and Skinny follow Mama Cat's every move, Boris decides to nap, demonstrating that it is perfectly okay to join in later or find your own timing. This is a comforting, vibrantly illustrated choice for toddlers and preschoolers who are navigating social expectations and learning to feel confident in their own unique choices.
What Parents Should Know
Sensitive Topics
The book is secular and gentle. It does not deal with heavy topics, focusing instead on the social dynamics of a small group and the validity of individual schedules.
Ideal Reader
A three-year-old who might feel overwhelmed by group activities at daycare or a child who is often called 'stubborn' because they prefer to observe before joining in.
Parent Prep
This book can be read cold. The repetitive 'But not Boris' line is a great opportunity for parent-child interaction and should be read with a playful, conspiratorial tone. A parent might reach for this after a playdate where their child refused to participate in the 'group activity' or when they feel frustrated that one sibling won't follow the family routine.
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