
Reach for this book when your child starts navigating the complexities of their first romantic relationship or when they feel smothered by a close friend or partner. It is an essential read for middle-grade students who are learning that it is okay to ask for space and prioritize their own identity within a relationship. In this story, Mary Anne feels overwhelmed by her boyfriend Logan's constant presence. The book explores themes of independence, setting boundaries, and the importance of maintaining one's own hobbies and friendships. For parents of 8 to 12 year olds, this provides a healthy, age-appropriate model for communicating needs and handling a breakup with maturity and kindness.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with the emotional weight of a first breakup and the social pressure of being in a couple. The approach is secular and very realistic. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Mary Anne finds peace in her solitude, even if the transition is initially awkward.
A middle-schooler who feels pressured to 'fit in' by having a partner, or a child who is naturally a people-pleaser and needs to see a character successfully set a firm boundary.
No specific scenes require a preview. The book can be read cold as it is a standard, gentle middle-grade contemporary novel. A parent might see their child avoiding phone calls, looking stressed when a certain friend's name is mentioned, or giving up their own interests to please someone else.
Younger readers (age 8-9) will focus on the 'drama' of the breakup and the friend dynamics. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of losing one's identity in a relationship.
While many books focus on the 'getting together' part of a romance, this one uniquely validates the need to be alone and the strength it takes to end a relationship that isn't working.
Mary Anne Spier and Logan Bruno are the BSC's golden couple, but the honeymoon phase is over. Mary Anne feels suffocated by Logan's constant attention and his tendency to make decisions for both of them. When Logan's behavior starts affecting her work and her friendships, Mary Anne realizes she needs to break up with him to regain her independence. The story tracks her internal struggle, the eventual confrontation, and the aftermath of navigating school and social circles as an 'ex.'
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