
A parent might reach for this book when their child, particularly one who is adopted, begins to ask questions about their origins or express feelings of being different. This gentle story follows Mata, a Māori girl adopted into a Pākehā (New Zealand European) family. On a school trip to the museum, she discovers a portrait of an ancestress, which unlocks a connection to her birth culture and whānau (family). For ages 6 to 9, Matatuhi sensitively explores themes of identity, belonging, and the beautiful complexity of family. It's an excellent choice for normalizing the feelings of adopted children and for starting conversations about cultural heritage in a hopeful and affirming way.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book's core themes are adoption and cultural identity. The approach is direct, gentle, and positive. It deals with the emotional reality of being a transracial adoptee in a secular way, focusing on ancestral and cultural connection. The resolution is deeply hopeful, emphasizing that Mata gains a connection to her birth family and culture without losing the love and security of her adoptive family. She belongs to both.
An adopted child, aged 6-9, who is exploring their identity, especially if they are a transracial adoptee. It is also perfect for a Māori child who may feel disconnected from their culture and wants to see their heritage beautifully represented.
This book can be read cold. The narrative is clear and self-contained. For readers outside New Zealand, a parent might want to briefly explain that Māori are the indigenous people of New Zealand. However, the story's emotional core is universal. Be prepared for questions about your own family's history and heritage. The parent hears their child ask, "Why don't I look like you?" or express feelings of not belonging. The child might be showing a new curiosity about their birth family or cultural background.
A younger child (6-7) will connect with the magic of finding a family lookalike in a painting and the happiness of meeting new relatives. An older child (8-9) will better understand the nuanced feelings of cultural disconnection and the importance of knowing one's roots to form a complete sense of self.
This book's specific grounding in Māori culture and the concept of whakapapa (genealogy) sets it apart. The use of a museum and an ancestral portrait as the key to unlocking identity is a powerful and unique narrative device. Written and illustrated by a prominent Māori artist, its authenticity is profound.
Mata is a young Māori girl who was adopted by a loving Pākehā family. Despite her happy home, she feels a sense of being different and disconnected from her Māori heritage. During a class visit to the local museum, she is mesmerized by a portrait of a tūpuna wahine (female ancestor) named Matatuhi, who bears a striking resemblance to her. This discovery is the catalyst for her adoptive parents to help her connect with her birth whānau, leading to a joyful reunion and a newfound sense of belonging and identity.
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