
Reach for this book when your child is beginning to navigate the complexities of deep, loyal friendships or needs a boost in self-confidence regarding their own identity. Through a series of rhythmic poems, Nikki Grimes introduces Danitra Brown, a young girl who radiates pride, resilience, and joy despite the everyday challenges of city life. The story explores the beauty of a supportive best-friendship and the strength found in single-parent households. It is a perfect choice for children aged 7 to 10 who are learning how to choose friends who celebrate them for exactly who they are. You will find it helpful for normalizing different family structures while centering Black joy and the importance of having a 'partner in crime' to face the world with.
The book touches on the absence of a father and living in a single-parent home, but the approach is direct and realistic rather than tragic. It also briefly addresses socioeconomic challenges and bullying. The resolution is consistently hopeful and grounded in the strength of community and friendship.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn 8-year-old girl who might be feeling a bit shy or overlooked, who needs to see a model of a girl (Danitra) who is unapologetically herself. It is also perfect for children living in urban environments who rarely see their neighborhood streets portrayed with such warmth and poetic beauty.
The book can be read cold. Parents might want to practice the rhythm of the poems beforehand to ensure the 'beat' of the city life comes through during the read-aloud. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child say, 'Nobody wants to play with me,' or if the child is asking questions about why their family looks different from those in traditional storybooks.
Younger children (7) will focus on the playfulness of the friendship and the colorful illustrations. Older children (9-10) will pick up on the deeper themes of social identity, the nuances of being a 'true' friend, and the emotional weight of the poem 'Surrender' regarding Danitra's father.
Unlike many books that focus on the struggles of inner-city life, this one uses poetry to elevate the mundane into the magical, focusing specifically on the intense, platonic love between two young Black girls.
This is a collection of thirteen interconnected poems narrated by Zuri Jackson about her best friend, Danitra Brown. The poems capture various vignettes of their lives in an urban setting: playing together, dealing with neighborhood bullies, Danitra's pride in her heritage, her resilience in a single-mother household, and the unwavering bond the two girls share.
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