
Reach for this book when you want to help your child look past first impressions or when you need a gentle way to discuss the reality of having an incarcerated loved one. Milo spends a long subway ride sketching the lives of the people he sees, imagining elaborate backstories for them based on how they look. However, a surprising encounter at the end of his journey makes him realize that his assumptions might be wrong. This beautifully illustrated story explores empathy, the complexity of people's lives, and the deep love of family. It is a powerful choice for children aged 4 to 8 who are developing their social awareness or those who might see their own family's unconventional journey reflected on the page.
The book deals with parental incarceration. The approach is realistic but handled with extreme tenderness. It is secular and focuses on the emotional bond between the mother and her children. The resolution is hopeful and focuses on the enduring nature of family love despite physical separation.
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Sign in to write a reviewA thoughtful 6-year-old who enjoys people-watching or drawing, or a child who is struggling with the stigma of a family member in prison and needs to see their experience validated as one of many diverse human stories.
Parents should be prepared for the ending reveal of the visitation room. It is helpful to read it through once to decide how to explain the setting (a prison) if the child is not already familiar with it. A parent might choose this after hearing their child make a judgmental comment about a stranger's appearance, or if the child asks why someone they know is 'away' or in jail.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on Milo's colorful drawings and the subway ride. Older children (7-8) will grasp the deeper irony of Milo's assumptions and the social commentary regarding how we perceive others based on class and race.
Unlike many 'issue' books, this doesn't lead with the incarceration. It leads with Milo's inner creative life, making the reveal a lesson in empathy rather than a lesson in crime, which preserves the dignity of the family involved.
Milo and his older sister take a long subway ride across the city. To pass the time, Milo draws in his sketchbook, imagining the lives of fellow passengers: a man with whiskers, a bride, and a boy in a suit. He assumes the suited boy lives a life of luxury and perfection. When they reach their destination, Milo realizes the boy is going to the same place he is: a correctional facility to visit a mother. This shift prompts Milo to redraw his pictures with more nuance and empathy.
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