
A parent would reach for this book when their teenager is struggling to navigate the isolating aftermath of a sibling or peer's death and feels like no one truly understands. It is particularly relevant for adolescents who are masking their pain or feeling pressured to return to normalcy before they are ready. The story follows Kermit, a high schooler who has lost his sister, as he joins a secret support group of bereaved teens known as the Minus One Club. This contemporary novel explores the nuances of grief, including the guilt of moving on and the complexity of finding joy amidst sorrow. While the themes are heavy, the book provides a realistic and ultimately hopeful roadmap for teenagers to find community and resilience in the face of profound loss. It is most appropriate for high school students who are ready for an honest, secular exploration of the grieving process.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts underage drinking as a coping mechanism for trauma and grief.
The entire plot centers on the death of the protagonist's sister and other peers' loved ones.
Includes a developing romantic relationship between two characters in the support group.
Characters struggle with how to behave and whether 'breaking rules' is acceptable when grieving.
The book deals directly with death and bereavement. The approach is secular and highly realistic, focusing on the internal psychological state of the protagonist. It explores the messy reality of grief, including alcohol use as a coping mechanism and the guilt of feeling happy again. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that grief is a lifelong journey.
A high schooler who feels isolated by a recent loss and is tired of the 'I'm so sorry' platitudes from adults. It is perfect for a teen who needs to see that their confusing, sometimes dark emotions are a normal part of mourning.
Parents should be aware that the book depicts teenagers using alcohol as a way to numb pain. There are also descriptions of the accident that caused the death. Reading alongside the teen or being ready to discuss healthy vs. unhealthy coping mechanisms is advised. A parent might notice their teen withdrawing from previous social circles, becoming cynical about 'normal' school activities, or expressing that no one understands what they are going through.
Younger teens (14) will focus on the social dynamics and the 'secret club' aspect, while older teens (17-18) will likely resonate more with the complex existential questions about identity after loss.
Unlike many grief books that focus on the immediate aftermath, this story dives into the long-term social infrastructure of teen bereavement and the specific subculture of 'the kid whose sibling died.'
Following the sudden death of his older sister, Kermit is drowning in grief until he is invited into the Minus-One Club: a secret society of high school students who have all experienced significant loss. Through these new connections, Kermit navigates the 'new normal,' including a budding romance and the realization that everyone grieves differently.
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