
Reach for this book when your child is facing the impending loss of a loved one or is struggling with the messy, unspoken guilt that often accompanies long-term family illness. It is a profound tool for the teenager who feels isolated by their grief or who expresses their pain through anger and withdrawal. The story follows Conor, a boy visited by a monster made of ancient yew trees who tells him three stories in exchange for Conor's own hidden truth. While the premise involves a monster, the heart of the book is a deeply realistic exploration of anticipatory grief, the complexity of love and loss, and the shame of wanting a painful situation to finally end. It is best suited for mature middle schoolers and high schoolers due to its intense emotional weight and dark atmospheric tone. Parents will find it provides a safe vocabulary for discussing 'the truth' of a terminal diagnosis and the confusing relief that can come with letting go.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe monster's appearances and the stories it tells can be dark, eerie, and atmospheric.
Includes scenes of school bullying and a sequence where the protagonist destroys furniture.
The monster's stories challenge traditional ideas of 'good' and 'evil' characters.
The book concludes with the protagonist saying goodbye to his dying mother.
The book deals directly and rawly with terminal cancer and death. The approach is metaphorical through the monster, yet starkly realistic regarding the medical progression of the mother's illness. It is a secular exploration of mortality that prioritizes psychological honesty over spiritual comfort. The resolution is realistic: the mother dies, and the 'hope' lies in Conor's emotional release and honesty rather than a miraculous recovery.
A mature 12 to 16-year-old who feels 'othered' by a family tragedy or who is prone to internalizing their anger. It is perfect for the child who rejects 'toxic positivity' and needs to hear that feeling angry or ready for the end is a normal part of grief.
Parents should be aware of the scene where Conor destroys his grandmother's sitting room. It is a violent release of grief. Review the final chapter to ensure you are ready for the directness of the mother's passing. A parent might notice their child becoming increasingly destructive, silent, or detached while a family member is ill. The trigger is the child saying 'I just want it to be over' or 'No one sees me.'
Younger readers (11-12) may focus more on the 'horror' and the monster's stories, while older teens (14+) will likely resonate more with the complex nuances of Conor's internal shame and the social isolation of being 'the kid with the sick mom.'
Unlike many books on loss that focus on the aftermath, this book focuses on the 'before' and the specific, agonizing psychological state of anticipatory grief. It is arguably the most honest depiction of a child's shadow-emotions ever written for this age group.
Conor O'Malley is a thirteen-year-old boy in England whose mother is undergoing failing treatments for cancer. He is isolated at school by pity and bullying, and at home by a strained relationship with his grandmother. Every night at 12:07, a monster (a manifestation of an ancient yew tree) visits him to tell three stories that subvert traditional fairy tale morals. In return, Conor must tell the fourth story: his own 'truth' regarding the nightmare that haunts him.
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