
A parent might reach for this book when their child is experiencing separation anxiety about a friend who is absent from school or a playdate. This whimsical story follows a young girl who is completely preoccupied with finding her missing friend, a chicken. She steadfastly refuses to be distracted by a series of increasingly fantastical events, like roaring rockets, dancing giraffes, and roller coasters, because her only focus is her friend. It gently validates the powerful, all-consuming feeling of worry for a loved one. The simple, repetitive text and bold, quirky illustrations make it perfect for ages 4 to 7, offering a humorous and reassuring way to open a conversation about loyalty and anxiety.
The primary theme is separation anxiety and worry over a missing friend. The approach is metaphorical and lighthearted, using humor to soften the anxiety. The resolution is entirely hopeful and secular. The book does not deal with any complex or traumatic topics.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis is for a 4 to 6-year-old who is experiencing anxiety because a friend is sick, on vacation, or absent from school for the first time. It’s perfect for a child who gets “stuck” on a worry and has trouble engaging in other activities, validating their single-minded focus.
No prep is needed. This book can be read cold. Its charm is in its simplicity and repetition. A parent can simply read it and be prepared to talk about the feeling of missing someone afterward. A parent has just seen their child refuse to play at the park because their best friend couldn't come. The child might say, "It's no fun without them," and seem unable to enjoy anything else, much to the parent's frustration.
A 4-year-old will latch onto the repetitive refrain ("My friend Chicken is not here.") and enjoy naming the silly things in the pictures. They understand the core feeling of missing a friend. A 6 or 7-year-old will better appreciate the deadpan humor and the irony of ignoring such fantastic events, and they can have a more nuanced conversation about loyalty and how worry can take over your brain.
Unlike many books about friendship that focus on conflict or making new friends, this book uniquely validates the feeling of being too worried about one specific friend to function. Its primary differentiator is the use of absurdist, whimsical illustrations to externalize the internal, all-consuming nature of a child's anxiety, making the feeling both relatable and non-threatening.
A young girl states, page after page, that her friend Chicken is not here. As a result, she will not be distracted by the increasingly absurd and exciting things happening around her, which are depicted in the illustrations. Her deadpan, repetitive narration contrasts with the visual chaos of dancing giraffes, roller coasters, and rocket ships. Her singular focus remains on finding her friend, which she does in a simple, happy resolution at the end.
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