Reach for this book when your child is struggling to integrate their identity across two different households after a divorce. It is a perfect choice for children who feel like their world is being defined solely by their parents' separation. The story follows a young boy who lists the many facts that make him unique, including his quirky nicknames for his elbows, while casually mentioning that his parents are divorced as just one part of his larger story. This book is appropriate for children ages 4 to 8 because it uses humor and relatable, everyday details to normalize a major life transition. Instead of focusing on the sadness of the split, it celebrates the child's continuity of self. Parents will appreciate how it validates a child's feelings without being overly heavy-handed or clinical, making it a comforting read for a child needing to feel seen as a whole person rather than a 'child of divorce.'
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book approaches divorce directly but through a secular, child-centered lens. It does not explain 'why' the divorce happened, but rather focuses on the 'how' of the child's daily reality. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on the child's resilience rather than a parental reconciliation.
An elementary schooler who is tired of adults treating them like they are 'broken' because of a family change. It is perfect for the child who uses humor as a coping mechanism and needs to see that life goes on with fun and silliness.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared for the child to want to come up with their own 'facts' or nicknames after reading, which is a great bonding opportunity. A parent might reach for this after hearing their child express worry that they have to be a 'different person' at Mom's house versus Dad's house, or if the child seems to be losing their sense of playfulness amidst the stress of a move.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the funny body parts and the physical movement between houses. Older children (7-8) will pick up on the nuanced message that their identity is independent of their parents' relationship status.
Unlike many divorce books that are bibliotherapeutic and somber, this one uses a 'scrapbook of facts' format and humor to de-stigmatize the experience. It places divorce alongside elbow nicknames, giving it a manageable weight in a child's life.
The narrator presents a list of 'facts' about himself. These range from the whimsical (nicknames for his body parts) to the personal (his parents' divorce). The book follows his daily life as he navigates living in two homes, emphasizing that while his living situation has changed, his personality, interests, and essential self remains intact.
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