
A parent might reach for this book when their young child is having big, explosive feelings over small, everyday problems and needs help understanding that anger is a normal emotion. "Nina in That Makes Me Mad!" follows a young girl through a series of completely relatable frustrations: a sibling taking her toy, a friend cheating at a game, and having to wait for something she wants. Presented in an accessible graphic novel format, the book validates a child's feelings of anger by simply showing them on the page without judgment. It's an excellent tool for children ages 4 to 8, not to teach specific calming techniques, but to normalize the feeling of frustration itself, making it a perfect first step for opening up a conversation about emotions.
None. The book deals exclusively with common, low-stakes childhood frustrations. The approach is secular and realistic. The resolution for each vignette is simply the moment passing, which is a realistic portrayal of a child's fleeting emotions.
A 4 to 7-year-old who has intense but brief bursts of anger over everyday injustices. This child may feel guilty or misunderstood for their big feelings and needs to see that anger is a universal, acceptable emotion. It’s perfect for a child who isn't ready for a book about solutions, but needs a book for pure validation.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis book can be read cold. No context is needed. A parent should be prepared for the book to end without offering solutions. The parent's role is to facilitate the next step of the conversation, asking questions like, "Nina stomped her foot. What could she do next? What do we do when we feel mad?" The parent just mediated a sibling squabble or witnessed a meltdown because a drawing didn't turn out perfectly. The child yelled, "It's not fair!" or "I hate everything!" The parent is looking for a resource to say, "I see you, and it's okay to feel that way."
A younger child (4-5) will experience pure recognition, pointing at the pictures and saying, "That happens to me!" They connect with the feeling on a visceral level. An older child (6-8) can better appreciate the comic format, the humor, and can start to articulate the concept of fairness and discuss the different triggers for frustration.
Its early graphic novel format is highly engaging and unique for this topic and age group. While most social-emotional learning books on anger focus on teaching coping mechanisms, this book's primary function is validation. By simply presenting anger as a normal part of a kid's day, it powerfully normalizes the emotion without any didactic baggage.
This book is a series of short, episodic vignettes showcasing moments that make the main character, Nina, angry. Scenarios include her older brother taking her toy robot, a friend peeking during hide-and-seek, getting a smaller piece of cake, and her dad being stuck in traffic. In each instance, Nina proclaims, "That makes me MAD!" and her physical reaction (scowling, foot-stomping) is depicted. The book catalogs these frustrations without offering explicit resolutions or coping strategies, focusing instead on the acknowledgment and expression of the feeling itself.
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