
Reach for this book when your child starts pulling away from physical affection or asserting a need for more personal space. It is the perfect tool for a child who feels smothered by parental attention and is looking for the words to say 'not now.' The story follows Piper Paw, a young cat who is fed up with his mother's doting, constant grooming, and unwanted kisses. Through a series of gritty, humorous, and relatable mishaps, Piper and his mother eventually find a middle ground that respects his autonomy while maintaining their bond. This book is a masterpiece for the elementary years (ages 5 to 9) because it validates a child's right to their own body and boundaries. It provides a safe, slightly rebellious space to discuss how love doesn't always have to be physical to be real. Parents will appreciate the honest, unsentimental approach to the messy transition toward independence.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts a realistic schoolyard scrap/fight between animal characters.
The protagonist is intentionally rude and defiant as he asserts his independence.
The book is famous for its 'gritty' realism for children. It depicts schoolyard fighting and a scene where Piper tries to smoke a cigar (with disastrous, nauseating results). These are handled with Tomi Ungerer's signature sharp, secular satire: they are consequences-driven rather than moralistic.
An elementary-aged child (7-9) who is starting to feel embarrassed by parental affection in public or who is naturally more introverted and sensitive to physical touch.
Parents should preview the school fight and the cigar-smoking scene. The book is best read with an appreciation for its cynical, non-sugarcoated tone; it does not follow the typical 'sweet' children's book formula. A child yelling 'I hate it when you touch me!' or wiping away a kiss with an expression of pure disgust.
Younger children (5-6) will find the cat's grumpiness and the cigar-induced sickness funny. Older children (7-9) will deeply resonate with the desire for social standing and the embarrassment of being 'babied.'
Unlike most books on boundaries that are instructional or overly sweet, this is a work of social satire. It respects the child's right to be grumpy and focuses on a 'contractual' resolution rather than an emotional one.
Piper Paw is a cynical, school-aged cat who is increasingly irritated by his mother's overbearing affection: particularly her insistence on morning kisses and fussing over his appearance. After a rough day at school involving a physical altercation and some mischief, Piper finally has a blowout argument with his mother. This leads to a realistic negotiation of boundaries where they agree on no more kisses, replaced by a more respectful, mutual understanding of affection.
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