
Reach for this book when your child feels like their hard work is going unnoticed or when they are struggling with their role on a team. It is a perfect fit for the young athlete who feels stuck on the sidelines and needs to understand that every position, even the bench, contributes to a team's success. Through the story of Chris, a basketball player who isn't a starter, the book explores how to handle disappointment and stay ready for your moment. Appropriate for ages 8 to 12, this story helps normalize the feelings of jealousy and frustration that come with sports competition. It provides a healthy model for self-confidence that isn't dependent on being the star player. Parents will appreciate the way it emphasizes patience and the value of a supportive teammate over individual glory.
The book is secular and realistic. It deals with common social pressures and the internal struggle of self-worth in a competitive environment. The resolution is realistic rather than a fairy tale: Chris doesn't necessarily become the superstar, but he finds value in his specific contribution.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn 11-year-old who practices hard every day but was recently passed over for a starting position or a specialized club team and is considering quitting because they feel 'not good enough.'
This is a straightforward, safe read that can be read cold. Parents might want to look at the 'The Real Story' section at the end, which Fred Bowen often includes to provide historical context or real-life sports examples. A parent hears their child say, 'The coach hates me,' or 'It doesn't matter if I'm there or not because I never get to play.'
Younger readers (ages 8-9) will focus on the basketball action and the basic unfairness of not playing. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of team dynamics and the maturity required to be a 'glue' player.
Unlike many sports books that focus on the 'underdog who hits the winning shot,' this book validates the experience of the kid who stays on the bench and finds dignity in that role.
Chris is a dedicated basketball player on his middle school team, but he spends most of his time as a reserve player. As he watches his teammates get the glory, he struggles with his identity as a basketball player and his frustration with his limited playing time. The story follows his journey in learning to stay prepared, support his teammates, and understand that being part of a team means more than just the minutes played on the court.
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