
Reach for this book when your teenager is grappling with the realization that they might not be who they thought they were, especially regarding their identity or sexuality. Ophelia Rojas has always been defined by her love of gardening and her string of crushes on boys, but as senior year winds down, she finds herself falling for a girl named Talia. This story explores the vulnerability of outgrowing a persona you have carefully cultivated for years. It is a heartfelt look at how friendship dynamics shift during major life transitions and the courage required to be honest with oneself. Parents will appreciate the respectful, nuanced portrayal of a supportive but confused family and the realistic, messy way Ophelia navigates her coming-out journey. It is a perfect choice for older teens (14 and up) navigating the bittersweet end of high school while searching for their authentic selves.
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Sign in to write a reviewFrequent use of strong language typical for contemporary YA.
Mentions of teen parties and underage drinking.
Themes of friendship breakups and the fear of losing social status.
The book handles sexual identity and questioning in a direct, secular, and deeply personal manner. It also touches on cultural expectations within a Latinx household. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on self-acceptance rather than just a romantic ending.
A 16 or 17-year-old who feels pigeonholed by their reputation or friend group and is quietly questioning their sexuality while fearing they will 'ruin' their established life.
There is some mild profanity and teen partying. Parents should be prepared to discuss the pressure teens feel to perform a specific identity for the sake of social comfort. A parent might notice their child becoming uncharacteristically withdrawn or defensive about their future plans, or perhaps expressing anxiety that they aren't who people think they are.
Younger teens will focus on the romance and the high school drama. Older teens will resonate more deeply with the existential dread of leaving home and the specific nuance of 'late-blooming' identity shifts.
Unlike many coming-out stories that focus on external homophobia, this book focuses on the internal struggle of 'brand management' and the grief of losing an old version of yourself to become someone new.
Ophelia Rojas is a high school senior known for her romantic nature, her tight-knit friend group, and her Cuban-heritage garden. When she develops feelings for Talia Sanchez, a quiet classmate, it disrupts her self-conception as a girl who only likes boys. Simultaneously, her friend group is fracturing due to post-graduation pressures and internal secrets. The story follows her internal monologue as she deconstructs her past identity to make room for her queer reality.
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