
A parent might reach for this book when their teen is navigating a complex or traumatic loss, especially if their grief is manifesting in confusing or secretive ways. Ordinary Ghosts tells the story of Emilie, whose family is still reeling a year after her mother's death. When Emilie starts seeing her mother's ghost, she must decipher its silent warnings, which seem connected to her older sister Marie's dangerous eating disorder. This poignant novel directly confronts the intersection of grief, family secrets, mental illness, and the supernatural. Appropriate for mature middle school and high school readers, it provides a powerful, nuanced look at how trauma affects a family and offers a starting point for difficult but necessary conversations about mental health and loss.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe ghostly apparitions are meant to be unsettling and disturbing rather than terrifying.
Characters keep significant family secrets about mental illness and the nature of a death.
The book deals directly with the death of a parent by suicide, though the method is not detailed. It is a central plot reveal. It also features a direct and clinically accurate portrayal of an eating disorder (bulimia), including scenes of binging and purging. The approach is secular, though the family has a Catholic background that adds a layer of cultural context. The resolution is realistic and hopeful: the family is beginning to heal and communicate, and Marie is seeking professional help, but there is no simple fix for their profound loss and trauma.
A mature teen, ages 14-17, who is grappling with a complicated bereavement. This is for the reader who feels haunted by unanswered questions after a loss, or for a teen who is watching a loved one struggle with mental illness and feels helpless. It resonates with introspective readers who appreciate psychological depth mixed with a supernatural mystery.
Parents must preview the scenes depicting the eating disorder. They are not gratuitous but are realistic and could be triggering for some readers. A parent should be prepared to discuss the topics of suicide and mental illness openly. The book is best read with the opportunity for follow-up conversation, as it brings up very heavy themes that a teen shouldn't have to process alone. A parent becomes aware that their teen is struggling with a family loss in a way that goes beyond typical sadness. The teen might be withdrawn, secretive, or fixated on the past. They might hear their child say, “I feel like I’m going crazy,” or, “Why won't anyone tell me the truth about what happened?” This book is for the child who senses that there are unspoken secrets coloring their family's grief.
A younger reader (12-13) will likely focus on the ghost story aspect and the mystery Emilie is trying to solve. They will grasp the sadness but may not fully comprehend the psychological nuances of the eating disorder or the mother's depression. An older teen (14-17) will better appreciate the sophisticated way the novel uses the ghost as a metaphor for the family’s unprocessed trauma and how that trauma manifests as a life-threatening mental illness. They will connect more deeply with the complex family dynamics and realistic portrayal of healing.
Unlike many ghost stories that focus on external hauntings, this book masterfully uses the supernatural element as a direct manifestation of internal, psychological trauma. The ghost is not the problem; it is a symptom of the family’s unspoken pain and secrets. Its unique strength lies in weaving together a compelling paranormal mystery with a raw, unflinching, and empathetic exploration of an eating disorder as a response to grief.
One year after her mother’s death, high schooler Emilie is trying to navigate her family’s new normal with her father, older sister Marie, and stepmother. Her fragile peace is shattered when she begins seeing the ghost of her mother. The ghost is silent and distressed, and its appearances seem to coincide with the worsening of Marie’s secret eating disorder. Emilie must confront her family’s unwillingness to speak about the past to understand what the ghost wants and what is truly happening to her sister, forcing them all to face the buried truths about their mother’s life and death.
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